Let’s just get this out of the way: if you’ve ever been told you’re too loud, too emotional, too opinionated, too ambitious, too sensitive, or too damn much in any way—congrats, sis. You’re probably doing something right.
Because “too much” is usually just code for “more than someone else could handle.” And that? That’s not your problem.
The World Has a Goldfish-Sized Comfort Zone
Society loooves a tidy little box. Be polite. Be pretty. Be agreeable. Be small (physically, emotionally, existentially). Don’t take up too much space or ask for too much. Don’t post that selfie. Don’t wear that outfit. Don’t speak too boldly.
But here’s the truth bomb: the box they want to stuff you into is about their comfort, not your potential.
You’re not too much. You’re expansive. You’re passionate. You’re a full-on fireworks display in a world that keeps asking for tea lights. And you know what happens when people try to dim you down?
You either shrink… or you finally say, “F*ck that.”
Your “Too Much” Is Someone Else’s Exactly Enough
Let’s be real—how many times have you watered yourself down just to make someone else feel more comfortable? Or quieter? Or smaller? (And not just because you were stuck in skinny jeans.)
Being loud about your boundaries, bold with your style, messy with your emotions, or unapologetic in your joy doesn’t make you difficult. It makes you honest. Authentic. Free.
Some people won’t like it—and that’s fine. You’re not a damn crouton. You’re not here to be liked by everyone.
Here’s the Thing That’ll Change Your Life:
The parts of you that feel “too much” are probably the exact things that will set you free.
Your laugh that turns heads? Keep cackling.
Your weird-ass hobbies? Fly that freak flag.
Your sensitivity that feels inconvenient? That’s your superpower, babe. It means you give a shit.
The people who matter won’t just tolerate that—you’ll be magnetic to them because of it.
So… What Do You Do With All That “Too Much”?
You stop apologizing for it.
You stop explaining it.
You stop shrinking it.
And instead?
You own it like the main character in a movie that you’re writing.
Wear the damn outfit.
Say the thing.
Take up the space.
Book the photoshoot.
Because the world needs more women who are too much and don’t care.
Happy Monday Loves
Amy & Brie
Ps. Want more info about booking the whole shoot thing??? set up a time to chat