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You’re Not Lazy

You’re Not Lazy

Hey Its us again!!!! Raise your hand if you’ve ever felt personally victimized by your own to-do list. You’re not broken. You’re not lazy. You’re not failing at being a functional adult.  I am struggling with this right now.  Too many todos and not enough freaking...
Perfectionism Is Just Fear In A Push Up Bra

Perfectionism Is Just Fear In A Push Up Bra

Hey there Love, Let’s call perfectionism what it really is: fear in a sparkly disguise. It struts in like it’s got its life together, but really? It’s just terrified of judgment, failure, and not being “enough.” The truth is, perfectionism isn’t a...
You are allowed to take up space.

You are allowed to take up space.

Hey girly…. From day one, we’re told to be small. Sit pretty. Be polite. Don’t talk too loud. Don’t show too much. Don’t ask for more. Shrink yourself to fit the room. But let me be very clear: you are allowed to take up space. Physical space. Emotional space....
Stop Waiting For Some Day

Stop Waiting For Some Day

Hey Love, Let’s cut to it: if you’ve got lingerie sitting in your drawer waiting for the mythical day when you feel “ready,” let me lovingly say—what the hell are you waiting for? You do not need a special occasion. You do not need a partner. You do not need a smaller...
The Spotlight Effect….and why its bullshit

The Spotlight Effect….and why its bullshit

Hey Lovely…. You know that feeling that everyone’s looking at you? Like you walk into a room and suddenly it’s all eyes on your unwashed hair, your outfit, your body, your everything? That feeling is a liar. It’s called the spotlight effect, and it tricks your...
You Can’t Earn Sexy

You Can’t Earn Sexy

Hey love Newsflash: Sexy isn’t something you earn. It’s something you claim. There’s no sexy certification. No checklist you have to complete. No partner required. No minimum cup size. No age limit. No weight restriction. You’re allowed to feel sexy in a messy bun and...