F*ck Valentine’s Day (Or Love the Hell Out of It)—Either Way, You Deserve to Feel Amazing
Let’s talk about Valentine’s Day. You either love it, tolerate it, or want to set fire to every heart-shaped box of chocolates you see. And honestly? All of those reactions are valid.
If you’re in a happy relationship, cool—enjoy your overpriced dinner and cute Instagram post. If you’re single or freshout of a relationship, you might be feeling like this day is just one big, commercialized gut punch. But here’s the truth: Valentine’s Day is not just about being coupled up. It’s about love. And that includes loving your damn self.
There’s so much pressure around this one day, like if you’re not being showered with gifts or professing undying love, you’ve somehow failed. F*ck that. The real failure is forgetting that love starts with YOU.
Love isn’t just about a relationship status. It’s about how you show up for yourself—how you treat yourself when no one else is watching. If you’re in a relationship, that’s great, but your partner isn’t your entire source of self-worth. And if you’re single? That doesn’t mean you’re missing anything.
So whether you’ve got a hot date, a partner of ten years, or just you and a bottle of wine watching true crime (no judgment, that sounds amazing), here’s our advice: make this day about celebrating yourself.
Ideas for a Valentine’s Day That’s Actually Worth It
💥 Book the damn boudoir session. You do not need a partner as an excuse to feel sexy, powerful, and absolutely f*cking stunning. Boudoir is about YOU. Period.
🍷 Take yourself out. You don’t need a plus-one to enjoy good food, a movie, or a spa day. Treat yourself like the main character you are.
💋 Wear the damn lingerie. I don’t care if you’re spending the night alone—throw on that lace bodysuit just for you. Feeling good in your own skin is your moment, not anyone else’s.
🔥 Unplug from the BS. If scrolling through social media is going to make you feel like sh*t, don’t do it. Log off, put on your favorite playlist, and do whatever the hell makes you happy.
💖 Reflect on what love really means to you. Love isn’t just romantic. It’s friendships, it’s self-respect, it’s the way you show up for yourself every day.
At the End of the Day…
Valentine’s Day is just another day. Whether you spend it cuddled up with someone, having a girls’ night, or blasting Lizzo in your underwear, just know this: you are enough. You are worthy. You deserve to feel amazing—not just on February 14th, but every damn day.
So go ahead—love yourself a little louder. You don’t need permission.
And if you’re ready to give yourself the ultimate self-love experience? You know where to find us.
xoxo
Amy and Brie
P.S. Whether you’re single, taken, or “it’s complicated,” if no one’s told you today—you’re hot as hell. 💋