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Wear This, Not That | Ft Wayne boudoir photographer

Wear This, Not That


Finding something to wear for your upcoming boudoir session doesn’t have to be a frustrating pain in the ass!

I’ll let you in on some secrets to finding the perfect sexy outfit….

fort wayne boudoir photograper, lingerie, what to wear, boudoir, sexy clothesOutfits from Torrid.


So, the key finding the perfect outfit that boosts your confidence and helps you slay your session is getting something that flatters your figure and fits correctly.


Seriously ladies, I CANNOT stress the importance of proper fit!!!


The body issue I hear the most concerns about while shopping for lingerie is tummy worries. And as a mom of 4, I can totally sympathize!


So naturally, most people gravitate towards something flowy (like the outfit on the right) that hides their mid-section.


And I’m begging you to STOP!!


Flowy outfits actually do more harm than good!


For starters, a camera doesn’t see what we see in the mirror.

Cameras are only 2-dimensional, so in its eyes, a flowy outfit actually adds a lot bulk and does absolutely nothing to define your shape.


They actually make you look larger and who the hell wants that?!


Also, loose baby-dolls typically have a lot less support on top than tighter outfits and support is definitely necessary when you are a bustier gal.


I know it seems scary, but trust me when I say: finding a form fitted outfit- such as a bodysuit or body-con dress (left side image)- will enhance your figure and show off your sexy curves to the 2d camera.

They offer more support throughout the ENTIRE outfit.

Outfits with boning create lines and add shape.

Form-fitted pieces also help define your waist, show off that hourglass, and create the illusion of a longer legs!


However, if you’ve tried and haven’t found anything (or you don’t want to deal with the stress of lingerie shopping in general) …

fear not!


I have an extensive lingerie closet available at the studio with pieces available in all shapes, colors, and sizes.

Shoes, jewelry, lingerie, we have it all!


I want this to be as easy as possible for you.

So, all you really have to do is bring your sexy self to your session and we’ll take care of the rest (:






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  • This would be wonderful. My husband passed away 5 yrs ago. After he passed away I guess I fell apart. I’ve had some major health issues. Things that I never would have dreamed could ever happen to me. I lived in a small apartment. I just kept getting sick. Sores all over my body and soul. Because I have always had pride in my looks. Not to the point of thinking I was all that. But I really tried to take care of myself. I had long natural blonde hair all the way down passed my butt. I was always known for my hair. That and my boobs were my best features. Well until just the last few weeks. But really like I said since he has been gone. The tiny apartment I spoke of was making me so I’ll. I didn’t know what it was. But I knew it was something. EVERYTIME I TRIED TO TELL the landlord all he would say everything was in my head. And more or less call me a complaining BITCH. I would tell every Dr. I went to how I felt. Still nothing. I have 4 grown daughters. I would tell them and their spouses. Still nobody would listening. I finally have met a super man. I had decided I didn’t want to be involved with another man. Because I would worry to much about them dying. But, this one has caught me. I thought it was the thing to do. Be without someone that way I wouldn’t be able exprenence that terrible pain. The exprenence I got from loosing my husband was so sad. I took care of him until his last breath. He was the greatest man God ever made. He was only given 2 months left to live. He actually made it for 4 months. He wasn’t even sick. I made him a drs appt . Because he was experiencing shoulder pain. That’s all. He wasn’t sick nor was he unable to work. He hadn’t missed one day. He built homes for a living for 30 yrs you would expect shoulder pain. Until that terrible day. His appt. He told me he was better now and didn’t want to go. But me I told him I would rather just go so he could get checked. Almost 5 hrs there. All the tests they were running was beginning to upset him. He said all of this for my shoulder. I had already thought something was wrong. I’ve never heard of blood test for this. And so much more. But finally they were ready to tell us what they found. This bastard walked in SUPPOSED TO BE the main Dr.there. HE WALKED IN SAID SIR, YOU NEED TO GO HOME TALK TO YOUR WIFE ABOUT THE GOOD TIMES YOU HAVE HAD TOGETHER.EAT YOU’RE FAVORITE MEAL. SMOKE ALL THE CIGARETTES YOU WANT. TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN IF YOU HAVE ANY. BECAUSE YOU ARE A DYING MAN WALKING !!! THEN FOR JUST ONE SECOND HE SAID YOU HAVE APPROXIMATELY 2 MONTHS LEFT TO LIVE. HE JUST STOOD THERE LOOKING AT US LIKE WE SHOULD BE OK WITH WHAT HE JUST TOLD US. I SCREAMED SO LOUD NO NO. THATS NOT WHAT WE CAME HERE FOR. HE SAYS YOU HAVE LUNG CANCER LIVER CA!CER AND BRAIN CANCER. THERES NOTHING WE CAN DO. I SWEAR I THOUGHT I WOULD LAY ON THE FLOOR RIGHT THERE AND DIE WITH HIM. MY HUSBAND SAID IS THERE ANYTHING U CAN DO TO HELP ME LIVE ALITTLE BIT LONGER. HE TOLD HIM MAYBE CEMO AND RADIATION WOULD GIVE HIM A EXTRA 2 OR 3 MONTHS. I SAID WELL THAT’S WHAT WE WILL DO. SIGN HIM UP. I NEVER DREAMED WHAT HAPPENED NEXT WOULD EVER HAPPEN.I WATCHED HIM GIO THROUGH SO MUCH PAIN JUST TRYING TO LIVE ALITTLE BIT LONGER. THATS STUFF MADE HIM GO FROM A VERY STRONG MAN OF 53 YRS OLD TO A VERY OLD MAN OF 90. I WAS TORE UP. I TOOK CARE OF HIM FOR ALL THE RIGHT REASONS. BECAUSE THATS WHAT WE’RE SUPPOSED TO DO.RIGHT.. BUT SOMEHOW I LOST MYSELF FOR 5 YRS. BUT I HAVE MADE IT TO THIS POINT..Ok back to the apartment I had to move into. I’ve been living in a place full of mold that no one could See. Not even me. I now have a infection in my body and my lungs.The Drs aren’t quite sure what to do. They couldn’t figure it out.it was the new guy in Mt life that figured out what I had. He done hrs and hrs. of research. Until he found out what I had been dealing with. Now I have been diagnosed with something called tricasporious.its caused from living in that environment and im highly contagious of mold. hidden mold. Only seen by people that no something about it. Thank God my new man REALIZED it was in there when he came to see me for the first time. We had met on the internet. We TALK TO Ea.other for 3yrs.. Now here I sit with almost no HAIR IT JUST FELL OUT IN THE LAST 5 DAYS. IM DEVISTATED. I JUST WANT TO GET BETTER. HE GOT THE INFORMATION ON EVERYTHING. MY INSURANCE HAD TO PAY 1,687.26 FOR MY ANTIBIOTICS. WHICH I MIGHT BE ON FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. WE DON’T KNOW EVERYTHING YET. BUT I WOULD REALLY LOVE TO BE ABLE TO DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS FOR THE MAN I LOVE TODAY. WITHOUT HIM THE DRS SAID THIS COULD HAVE EVEN KILLED ME. IM PRAYING EVERYDAY TO GET HEALTHY AGAIN. BUT THANK YOU FOR READING MY STORY IF YOU DO.. IM SORRY IT WAS SO LONG. G. DAY TO YOU ALL. GOD BLESS.

    January 23, 2019 at 9:21 pm

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